Licensed Sex Therapist in Seattle

Couple improving their sex life through sex therapy

Create or rekindle safe, pleasurable, and connected intimacy with your partner

I know you want to have pleasurable and connected sex with your partner. Maybe you’ve tried many things to fix it: talking to your partner, books, doctors, and physical therapy. Still, having sex and being intimate feels awkward or even painful. 

You’re tired of feeling ashamed and rejected. Perhaps you just want to get sex over with because there’s no joy or pleasure. Or you avoid it altogether.

Eventually, you start feeling more withdrawn, ashamed, and disconnected from your partner. You love your partner, and you’re committed to them, and there are a lot of good things about the relationship, but the sex just does not click. I know how hard and confusing that can be - especially if you don’t know who to talk to.

Sex therapy is a great next step. I provide couples sex therapy to clients who feel disconnected from their sexual selves, avoid sexual intimacy with a partner, experience painful sex, lose sex drive, or have desire discrepancy.

As a sex therapist in Seattle, I take the time to get to know you and create a safe and warm space for sharing all the challenges. I will guide you through deep, honest conversations with your partner and offer customized exercises for you to practice at home. 


Lesbian couple having sex after sex therapy

In sex therapy, I will help you:

  • Understand your and your partner’s sex and intimacy desires.

  • Navigate painful sex (vaginismus, high tone pelvic floor, etc.) or sexual difficulty.

  • Initiate and engage in pleasurable and connecting sexual experiences.

  • Stop withdrawing from and avoiding intimacy with your partner, worrying about painful sex, performance, and achieving orgasm.

  • Cultivate more positive self-talk about your sexuality.

  • Create a more honest, open, safe, and supportive exploration of pleasure with yourself and your partner.

  • See and treat yourself as a sexual and authentic being who is deserving of pleasure and connection.

  • Experience less pain with sex and reduced anxiety about sexual exploration and intimacy.

  • Focus on personal and professional growth and development while deeply rooted in your safe, intimate relationships.

  • Feel connected to your sexual self, secure in your sexual expressions, and validated in your desire for pleasure and connection.

  • Co-create a sexual relationship that is unique to you and your partner - one that is both intimate AND feels good

Sex therapy for kink, intersex, LGBTQ, heterosexual, nonmonogamous couples

What to Expect from Sex Therapy

Sex therapy starts with you and your partner sharing your stories (the good, the bad, and the ugly) and your goals for therapeutic work.

I will facilitate honest and open conversations about sex and provide you with customized exercises to practice outside of sessions.

Our sessions will offer a safe space for your desires and challenges, as well as your relationship.

I aim to help you and your partner stop withdrawing from and avoiding intimacy, start feeling secure in your authentic sexual selves, and experience pleasure and connection with each other.

Benefits You Can Gain From Sex Therapy

My mission has always been to provide a safe, non-judgmental, and confidential space for individuals and couples to explore their concerns and work toward positive change. 

Here's how my sex therapy services in Seattle can help you:

  • Expert Guidance: I offer personalized guidance and evidence-based techniques to address a wide range of sexual and intimacy issues.

  • Tailored Approach: Every individual and relationship is unique. I tailor my approach to suit your specific needs, goals, and preferences.

  • Communication Skills: My sex therapy services are geared toward helping individuals and couples improve communication skills, enabling them to express their needs, desires, and boundaries effectively.

  • Sexual Education: I provide comprehensive sexual education to help clients better understand their bodies, desires, and pleasures.

  • Emotional Support: My approach to sex therapy offers compassionate support and validation, creating a safe space for clients to explore their concerns and emotions.

Ultimately, my goal as a sex therapist in Seattle is to empower individuals and couples to cultivate fulfilling and satisfying sexual relationships. It's a journey that requires patience, empathy, and a willingness to explore and understand each other's needs and desires. I help clients build deeper connections and intimacy within their relationships by providing guidance and support.

Let’s Work Together

Take the First Step Towards a Fulfilling Intimate Life

Are you ready to address your intimacy and sexual concerns and embark on a journey towards greater satisfaction and connection? I encourage you to schedule a free consultation today. Together, we can work towards overcoming obstacles, enhancing intimacy, and achieving a more fulfilling intimate life.

Don't let challenges in your intimate relationships hold you back. Book a free consultation today to take the first step towards positive change.

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